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2. Cdch thd hien "hi€u trung" vit mQt sd nguyiln tdc khdc cia
nho gido trong gia dinh Nguydn Sinh Huy:

Seich Trung Dung c6 cdu: "Qudn thd,n, pht1, tti, cOn dQ, bd,ng htu,
d6ld dqt dqo crta thiAn ha; cdn trl, nhd,n, dung ba didu ld dqt dtic
crta thiAn hq". Nhu vAy sau "cht Trung", "chfi Hidu'lir didu quan
trong dic bi6t cria Nho girio. Nhtmg trong kinh L6 thi cd cAu:
"Dqng ldng di khoi dd,u t* cha mg,ld, dqy dd,n hda muc; dung ldng
kinh khdi t* huynh trudng, ld, dqy dd.n kinh thud.n. Ldy t* muc md,
dqy dd,n, thi ddn bidt qu! c6 cha mg, ldy kinh thud,n md. dqy dd,n thi
dd.n bidt qu! trgng theo lQnh ngudi ffAn. Dem QiAu dy md, thi thd, thi
diAu gi md hhOng ld.m duqc".

Nhu v6y, hidu thudn lh dao td gia mh ciing lh dao tri nrxic.
Thd thi "trung hidu " lnay "hidu trung"?

"Chtt hidu theo nghta hgp thi rdng bu\c ghA ldnt. Ngudi ngd,y
nay phdn ddi s4r rdng buQc qud, chd tinh cha n1.9, sclo lqi hh6ng?
KhOng bidt thuong cha mg,ldm sao thuong nudc? Khing chdm s6c
cha me gid,, ldm sao phr4c uu nhdn ddn? Duy ch* hi6u 0 nghia rQng
thi phu. thuQc udo chrt fiung, ngurdi minh ngd,y ng ud,n thudng "ldy
trung ldfiL hi6u'\L).

Tlong Luc V6n Ti6n, cu Od Cfridu ctng d6 vidt:

'Trai thil trung hidu ldm dd,u".

Dring vAy, trung hidu lh hai dric tinh hdt sric co bin cria con
nguiri theo quan ni6m Nho girio. Ludn ly dao nho dbi hbi m6t cdch
nghi6m khdc, dao lhm nguiri phii phdn ddu dat hai chudn muc
nhy. Trung hidu lh ti6u chf ddx6t hhnh vi, drinh gid con nguii. Ddt
vi6c nu:6c truoc vi6c nhh, chit hidu ddt sau chfr trung lh m6t thuc
td tt lau & nud'c ta, c6 thd ldy cdu chuyOn Thr{nh Gi6ng lhm m6c
kh&i ddu.
Nhfrng nguiri con.trong gia dinh Nguy6n Sinh Huy ddu thdm
nhudn cdi dao hidu trung cira Nho girio vh cria dao lf d6n t6c nhu

(l)Tr6n Vin Giiu:Tri6t hgc vi tu tu6ng, NXB.TP.HCM, 1988, tr.266.

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